Tuesday, December 29, 2009

The Christmas Report

Sorry the post with all of the Christmas pictures is SOOO late! We've been a little busy enjoying the time off together!

Elliot seems to have had a wonderful Christmas ... I want to call it his "first" Christmas, as he wasn't really aware of things last year ... but I suppose it wasn't technically his first, so I won't confuse people.

Christmas Eve & Day 2009


The pictures start with our Christmas Eve festivities at Steven's parent's house and follow through to Christmas night when Elliot finally just passed out from exhaustion. It was a very exciting day for a little boy!

I'm warning you, there are a TON of pictures. And, yes, I did weed them out ... there were a TON and a HALF!

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Happy Bites = Happy Momma!




Today we went to Charlotte in search of Happy Bites, toddler food by a company called Happy Baby Foods .

Now, we didn't go to Charlotte just for this food. Anyone who knows me knows of my obsession with all things IKEA. So a trip to IKEA is like a pilgrimage to my personal Mecca. Except it obviously happens more than once in a lifetime. ;)

Trips to Charlotte usually entail IKEA and then a stop at The Children's Place at Concord Mills. A trip to Charlotte will now include a stop to Super Target. Creating what I will now term the "Charlotte Trifecta!"

So ....

IKEA
The Children's Place
Super Target

Got it?

Okay.

Why Super Target, now, you ask? Because they stock Happy Bites!!! I've been searching for the Happy Bites for MONTHS now! It is essentially organic convenience food for toddlers. Or, organic convenience food for mothers to feed their toddlers. ;) They also stock a couple of other frozen organic foods which will undoubtedly make my life easier!

Here's Elliot enjoying the fruits, or chicken nuggets, of my labor!

Happy Bites Baby

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

We have WORDS!



Pea

Elliot can say "Pea" now. He was in the bedroom with Steven and he kept pointing to something and making a "P" sound. Steven was puzzled and just kinda watched him do it a couple more times. I guess he finally figured out Elliot was gesturing to him about something ... so Steven stretched over to the other side of the bed to find that Elliot's favorite book Little Pea was on the other side ... where Elliot was pointing. The kid was saying "Pea!" He wanted his book. How cool is that?

Butterfly

He's been saying "buh" for months now in response to the butterflies that adorn Grandma's walls. And the same day he started really walking ... he also started identifying objects! I was reading a short board book to Elliot when I decided to see if he could point to objects when asked. So I said "Where's the butterfly?" and he promptly sprung his little pointer finger out and touched one butterfly, and then went across the page to touch the other. I jokingly told my friend I was going to enroll him in Entomology classes for tots. Still, I was pretty impressed!

Ball

The same day as the butterfly incident, Elliot was given a ball by one of my coworkers and when she handed it to him, he made a noise like "bah" ... it didn't phase me at the time, but then yesterday he said the same thing when I toss over his soccer ball to him. Bah. Now my kid can say ball. It's just wild to me!

Pretty?

He also says something that sounds a lot like "pretty," but I'm not quite sold on it yet. You know, it's SOOO hard to know what babies are really saying when they are learning to talk. I don't want to attribute a sound he makes to the wrong word, so I try to be reserved with these things ... especially since the word pretty is a descriptor, an adverb or adjective. But, I will tell you ... when he says the sound that sounds like "pretty" he's saying it about people and about decorations. Often when he looks at the xmas decorations we have adorning the walls he makes the sound ... he always looks like he's amazed and awed ... so maybe he knows a couple of nouns and one "pretty" cool adjective. ;)

I don't want to sound skeptical about my child, but I don't want to sound like I think I have the next Charles Dickens (usually people say Einstein, but we're talking WORDS here.)

Ladies & Gentlemen, we have a WALKER

Okay ... so Elliot has been "really" walking since last Friday.



For whatever reason, Friday was his day 12/18/09. Sounds good. He's been taking steps here and there since his first on 11/1/09 ... but he hasn't really just "gotten up and walked" until this past Friday. It has been exciting.

He's been cruising for MONTHS now, since 6/25/09 ... so he's been "into everything" since then. His walking hasn't added any additional trauma in that regard.

Walker


My next area of concern centers around door knobs. He's tall enough now to reach them, but not tall enough to try and turn it. Oy! I have a lot of knobs to cover with safety devices. You've seen my hallway of doors!

I try to avoid as many of those safety products as possible ... sometimes I think we make our children's lives "too" safe. But I did break down a couple of weeks ago and buy a thingy that holds the toilet bowl lid down ... and now I fear it's like the safety gadget seal has been broken! In my defense, it was not a frivolous, lazy-parent purchase. Elliot hangs out with me in the mornings, in the bathroom, while I'm getting ready for work. He has free reign of cabinets and drawers and all other sorts of goodies, but I had to draw the line at the toilet. For one, I am a germaphobe (which got 10x worse after childbirth) and for two, it really is dangerous to allow your child carte blanche access to a vessel filled with water if your eyes are not glued to them. Given that part of the "getting ready for work" process always involves me washing my hair, I needed a way to prevent a horrible accident.

I feel 100% justified in my toilet guard purchase, but will door knob safety thingys bring me into the realm of lazy-parent? I guess only I can answer that, as it is a personal issue and typically not something I label other parents with.

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Snow in High Point

This past Friday it snowed in High Point!

While those of us in the office who have lived in areas that snow had a good laugh at all the drama ensuing, I was looking forward to putting Elliot in the snow.

Sadly sometime during the dark hours of Saturday morning the snow turned into freezing rain and so there was a hard layer over the actual snow by the time we got Elliot outside.

I honestly thought about not putting him out in the snow because I figured it wouldn't be too much fun with the layer of ice ... but then I realized that I would be pretty ticked off with myself if I let the snow melt without pictures of Elliot in it!

So ... I bundled him up in a sleeper, his lined overalls, and a pair of lined nylon pants ... and on the top his NC State hoodie sweatshirt and his lined nylon jacket over that. I'm sure he was over bundled, but I wasn't sure how long we'd have him out there. Funniest part to me was his Daddy out there with him, with just a short sleeved shirt!

There wasn't much opportunity for real "fun" but we got some cute shots!

Snow in High Point

Thursday, December 17, 2009

Scary Santa

Tonight we took Elliot to see the resident Levolor Kirsch Santa Claus.

We did this last year, and he was so chill about it ... but, of course, he was 6 weeks old last year.

This year, at 13.5 months, he was not so chill. He quite enjoyed flirting with every pretty girl he saw ... he didn't even seem too disturbed by the "big man in red" until he got closer, and closer, and closer ... Wow, by the time he was close enough to pull his beard, it was all over! Is it bad that I think my son is freaking adorable when he cries? Just so precious! And all that drama was in the hallway before the "formal" picture took place!



What a difference a year makes!

Given all of that ... I knew I was NOT going to get away with putting Elliot on Santa's lap without me there ... so I had to sit on Santa's lap, while Elliot sat on mine! Poor Ed ... I mean, Santa!

Dec 17, 2009


But, for his troubles Elliot was awarded this pretty cool toy!

Monday, December 14, 2009

Elliot as Santa

Tonight in an effort to come up with a Christmas card photo for 2009 we dressed Elliot up in his Santa suit (a compromise, as the child refuses to wear his Santa hat ... as you'll soon see).

I think you'll enjoy the results. It was a pretty fun and funny photo shoot!

Dec 14, 2009

Thursday, December 10, 2009

Christmas Threw Up in My Livingroom

I am not big on Christmas.

Until this year.

Something about having a baby really changes your attitude about the holiday.

I still really don't like the commercialization and all of the pressure to buy people things during a specific time of year, even though you can't find anything that really looks like "them" ... all because it's Christmas.

BUT, I digress ... I have really gotten into decorating for the baby! Last weekend we ran out and bought the "Joys of the Season" cartridge for my Cricut machine. And now it looks like Christmas threw up in my livingroom! But, we're really enjoying it. Mom has even decorated the "Man Cave." You'll notice the difference in the rooms ... that's the Man Cave.

Christmas Decorations


One of my friends laughed at me when I said I was doing it for the baby ... but I really am. Every time he comes into the room he notices something new we've put up. He has really enjoyed all the new sights and he's pointing at the different scenes and makes a sound that we're saying is the word "pretty."

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

"That! Over There!"


Elliot has begun pointing!

I guess it's too early to tell him it's not polite to point. I suppose pointing is pretty useful at this age.

I just think it's pretty darn cute! The pointing started this week while we were at the beach celebrating Thanksgiving.

EVEN MORE CUTE!?!?!?! He's started touching the tips of his index fingers together like he's taking a roadside sobriety test! Or, like he's Evie from "Out of This World" and can freeze time.

Also, along the index finger obsession route, Elliot had endless minutes of fun playing with the plastic tip to the door stop in our bedroom. He took the plastic tip off and put it on his index finger ... then he'd take it off and put it on the OTHER index finger ... then he'd put it back onto the door stop! ;)

He also threw his first real "fit" while at the beach. Thanksgiving day itself, in fact. He was over-tired and Grandma walked out of the room and he just could NOT take that. His fit lasted almost 30 minutes and the length became a little disturbing to me; thankfully he finally fell asleep! :) Did you know that the "terrible 2's" begin at 12 months and typically last through the 36th month? So ... I guess the label "terrible 2's" is more about the DURATION rather than the AGE. Huh! Who knew?

So ... there's the summary of this week's developmental leaps. No, he's not consistently walking yet. ;)

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Happy Birthday Baby!


Weight: 23.5 lbs.

Height: 31 1/2" inches

My BABY BOY is a 1 year old today! Here's his 2nd official birthday picture ... I think we have to count the delivery photos as 1st official birthday pictures. :)

What Elliot has accomplished since the last post (in August!)

  • (8/26) Got into his puffs container on his own (think melt away cheerios)
  • (8/26) Pulled puffs out of a snack trap container for the 1st time
  • (8/28) Started shaking his head “no” when about to get his face wiped.
  • (9/2) Elliot rolled off of the changing table for the first time! Luckily I was bent down to look for something in the drawers and “caught” him before he could really fall.
  • (9/5) While on vacation at the beach I began training Elliot to sleep in the bed by himself. Rocked him to sleep and then placed him in the bed … he woke up twice, but I was able to quickly sooth him back to sleep both times! This has pretty much been his M.O. since ... unless Daddy is putting him to sleep ... and then he lets Daddy walk him around! Funny, eh?
  • (9/18) Elliot learned to clap his hands this week!
  • (9/25) Elliot started saying “buh” when he sees butterflies and dragonflies.
  • (10/3) Had his first official “runny” nose. He’s had 2 other colds, but neither time did they result in a runny nose.
  • (10/5) Elliot actually said “buh-bu-fah” at the butterflies in Mom’s room.
  • (10/6) Gave Elliot his first ever dose of medication … he just seemed to feel so crappy that I thought it might help. Didn’t seem to do anything … oh well!
  • (10/6) Elliot stood unsupported by himself for apx. 10 seconds. He’s doing that more and more, but still doesn’t seem to be interested in walking. He knows he can get wherever he wants by crawling … fast!
  • (10/8) Grandma noticed that Elliot’s next 2 bottom teeth are coming through!
  • (10/13) Elliot used his little walker and went form the couch to the TV stand.
  • (10/16) Elliot rolled off of the bed for the 1st time! Luckily we’d already taken the bed off the frame and placed foam mats underneath!
  • (10/17) Elliot officially no longer wants to be rocked to sleep. I laid with him in the bed while he rolled around for a bit until he settled in a spot to sleep. Took 30 minutes.
  • (10/22) Elliot waved back at Grandma today!
  • (10/24) Elliot popped out his pacifier when he saw Grumpa and said “Pah!”
  • (10/25) Took Elliot on his first “educational” outing … to the Natural Science museum to see the animals (they have a mini zoo and a petting area).
  • (10/26) Elliot stood without assistance for the 1st time.
  • (11/1) Elliot took 2 steps toward me, from Grandma.
  • (11/3) Elliot climbed out of his high chair. Also climbed out of the restaurant high chair! Oy! We’re going to have to use those dirty germ infested straps to buckle him in now!
  • (11/4) Elliot turned 1! He made it through his first WHOLE year with only 3 mild colds, no ear infections, no trips to the Dr. (other than well-baby visits), 8 teeth through the surface, taking steps, co-sleeping, and breastfeeding the whole time!

I cannot believe it was only a year ago that my life ended as I knew it! Words cannot express how grateful I am that this little boy came into our lives!

We'll be celebrating this milestone with family, Mexican food, a Cherrybrook Kitchen birthday cake (Thanks Suzanne!) with Cream Cheese frosting and PRESENTS!

More pictures to come!

Monday, August 24, 2009

Assigning Affection

This process of watching an infant become a toddler is AMAZING! I am so blown away, watching his learning process unfold in front of me. Here are some of the highlights from the last 3 months.

  • 6/6 – started placing his hand in/over his mouth and making noises (think the “Indian” sound we used to make as kids)
  • 6/18 - Got himself into a seated position by himself for the 1st time and never looked back! Also started eating “puffs” (those little melt away cheerios looking things.)
  • 6/24 – started “commando crawling” where his belly is still on the floor, but he’s moving across with his arms and some help from a foot. He actually had a style a friend of ours termed the “kickstand” b/c he keeps one knee bent with his foot in the air while he uses the other foot to help scoot.
  • 6/25 – around this time Elliot started to “cruise” … you know, where they start walking while holding onto stationary objects. He goes from his “balance bar” to his exersaucer.
  • 6/26 – Started to self-feed puffs.
  • 7/3 – Elliot met the ocean up close and personal. We took him to the beach the first time in January, and he LOVED the wind, but this time he actually got to feel the water and sand. He wasn’t quite in love with it, but he didn’t fuss either. He actually got a bit of sunburn on his little left arm. I was quite alarmed, but he had no issues.
  • 7/13 – Elliot has gone through a HUGE rite of passage … he figured out he can follow me into the bathroom. No peeing in peace for awhile for me!
  • 7/14 – Introduced yogurt to Elliot’s diet and quickly realized his body doesn’t appear to like it. Will reintroduce at 12 months.
  • 7/17 – Started crawling in his sleep.
  • 7/18 – Steven and I left Elliot at home with Grandma and Grandpa to attend a friend’s wedding. This is the first time we’ve left Elliot at the house to do something together without him!
  • 7/22 – First blood-letting accident! Elliot fell and cut his tongue with his tooth!
  • 7/25 – Elliot begins to crawl on his hands and knees, still resorting to the commando crawl when the “normal” crawl frustrates him or he gets tired.
  • 8/1 – A top front tooth (left) pokes through the gums
  • 8/4 – Turned 9 months and visited the pediatrician. Elliot is 21lbs. 5.5oz and 30.25” tall!
  • 8/6 – Discovered pots & pans in the kitchen.
  • 8/8 – Sometimes thinks someone approaching him means they are playing “chase.” Will squeal and try to “escape.”
  • 8/10 – Begins to CLIMB! OMG! Crawled on top of his box of blocks, trying to leverage it to get to the top of the TV stand.
  • 8/12 – Flirts with standing – Elliot stood at the coffee table without his belly leaning on it (which is the usual stance). He left go of the table and stood for a second before he started to lose his balance … but he caught himself and prevented a fall!
  • 8/17 – Understands that objects can go “into” other objects … pushed a ball down a slide.
  • 8/18 – Elliot has 4 teeth pushing through the gums on top! WOW! Crazy teething run!
  • 8/20 – Elliot started playing “dropsy” with items. i.e. dropping a ball over his crib rail.
  • 8/21 – Elliot is starting to “share” objects. He was intently inspecting Grandma’s cell phone (without immediately putting it in his mouth) and when he was done inspecting it, he actually handed it to me!

There are probably a million other little things to mention, but these are the ones that I’ve jotted down in his calendar. I’ve still got major mommy-brain, so I’m sure I’ve failed to capture a few of the biggies, but overall, I think I’m doing pretty darn good with writing stuff down. Hopefully I can do just as good with subsequent children!

Everything is going well in the house. We’re busy getting everything in order so that we can put it on the market (please reserve any negative thoughts, we need only positive ones!). My company is moving to Atlanta and next week we find out who is being offered to move and who isn’t. Our parent company, Newell Rubbermaid, is headquartered in Atlanta, and so the move serves to put us all under the same roof. It is an exciting and unnerving time. As we were already in need of a bigger home, we’re excited about the prospect that that home may be in ATL! There will be LOTS of opportunity in Atlanta and so we are all looking forward to the possibilities!

Steven’s school year started back up last week, and with that, there are scheduling changes. Since Steven was at home during the summer, he and Elliot developed their own little rhythm and schedule. Now that he’s not waking up to Daddy in the mornings, I think Elliot is a little confused … I also think this is coinciding with a separation anxiety phase, so we’re working through that. Luckily my workplace is somewhat flexible and I can go in at 8:30 instead of 8 while we’re figuring things out.

Elliot has started to give kisses and hugs. Of course kisses come at you rather open mouthed, and hugs are more in conjunction with being picked up, but it’s still nice to have these little things to assign signs of affection.

Thursday, June 11, 2009

gDiapers


We finally started Elliot on gDiapers on April 16th! It’s been almost 2 months of gDiapers for us. He is pictured above in the cutest of all his gDiapers. For those of you who do not know what they are or how they work, visit www.gdiapers.com. You can use an insert called a “flushie” in them (which is 100% biodegradable and flushable), or you can also use cloth. We predominately use cloth. Grandma figured out what the material was from the cloth inserts we’d purchased and found the material online so that she could make more. We’ve got a big enough stash so that we only need to wash diapers 2 times a week. Woo Hoo! These gDiapers and their cute gPants are like an obsession. The company has re-released their “Glam Black” ones and even though I’m trying to be good and save money for the pay-less summer ahead (We do 10 month pay with Steven’s pay) I just HAVE to have this new one … especially since it is limited release and who knows when they will bring them back out again!

May was a HUGE month for Elliot. First of all, he turned 6 months (of course, he’s since turned 7 months…I am SOOO slack in updating this page).

Elliot has learned to do or obtained the following since I last posted:

  • Sit unsupported 4/6, can sit like a champ now and move his torso
  • Support his weight briefly on all 4’s 4/13, he can support his weight longer now, but he’s not quite crawling yet
  • Saw his first feature-length film in honor of Earth Day we took him to see EARTH … he LOVED it but did take a quick nap in the middle
  • Has slept on his own several times for anywhere from 30 minutes to over an hour for naps (we cosleep)
  • Got his 1st tooth! Bottom Center teeth … the left one 5/6
  • Pulled himself from sitting to standing in his crib by HIMSELF 5/7, and he does this regularly now
  • Finally said “Mamamamamamamama” 5/14, but won’t say it with any regularity … he seems to prefer the sound of “dadadadadada”
  • Got his 2nd tooth! Bottom Center teeth … the right one 5/18
  • Began eating solid veggies 5/19 … homemade organic baby food, yum! He loves Sweet Potatoes and Acorn Squash
  • Swam in a "big" pool 5/24 and LOVED it.

So, I think those are all the highlights from the nearly 2 months since I last posted.

At Elliot’s 6 month checkup he weighed 19 lbs. and measured 28 ¾” tall. I’m pretty sure he’s even taller now … and I’m guessing he’s around 21 lbs. He actually did not gain any weight between 4 months and 6 months, so he’s proven to be a good boy that listens to his Mommy and Grandma, as we pleaded with him to slow down the growing! ;) He’s got such a long torso, though … he wears 12 months in onesies and outfit sets, but when it comes to pants and shorts he’s in 6-9 month stuff.

He is still such a happy baby. I think he may be working on a tooth or two, though, because he cried the MOST he’s ever cried in his life the night before last. Happily, he was back to his cheery self the next day. We now say he must really want a sibling because he’s just SOOO good.

Thursday, April 16, 2009

First Concert


Elliot REALLY enjoyed his first concert. His reaction was amazing. When we walked into the auditorium it was like he turned "on!" He was looking around everywhere ... and not at the lights, as you would expect a baby would ... he was making eye contact with the crowd. It was as if he was saying "I'm here to perform." People around us got a kick out of seeing a baby at the concert ... I'm sure some of them were worried there would be a lot of crying, but there was NONE! Once the show started he settled right in and watched the stage, avidly, for 90 minutes. Mom and I were AMAZED at his focus. In the picture above he's sitting on my lap and sucking on MY thumb! He didn't need to wear the ear protection too much ... mostly for the audience applause and cheers.

Elliot has officially mastered the art of "rolling over." He's got back to tummy and tummy to back down pat. He's actually started to move onto lifting his belly off of the mat and lunging forward ... pre-crawling. I actually got to see the whole thing ... I was watching him on the mat ... thought he had lifted his little belly off of it so I started watching him even more closely and sure enough a few seconds later he did it again and then lunged forward. It was awesome to catch the whole thing!

We were casually feeding Elliot cereal for "fun" ... it wasn't replacing any nursing feeds, just something extra and infrequent, but after reading some stuff on kellymom.com I decided to cut that out. Dr.'s seem to be pushing food earlier and in large quantities these days. We all know my issues with the American Academy of Pediatrics when it comes to vaccines, but I don't ignore their advice completely ... and they recommend no food introduction until at least 6 months ... more like 6 to 8 months... I wonder why Dr.'s then start pushing the foods at 4 months?

More updates to come!

Thursday, March 26, 2009

Working Moms

March has been a VERY busy month for us! I have spent WAY too much time at work, along with everyone else, getting things ready for our big launch on April 1st! Thankfully the bulk of my work is done, so I am able to sit down at the computer and give ya'll an update! Smile

Elliot is doing great! He's been teething a good bit .... lots of drool and soaked shirts! There's a lot of big cognitive developmental workings that go on during month 4 and this can cause some sleep disturbances, which we have been going through .... hasn't been the easiest, especially with work so busy, but we're getting through it. He's still an incredibly happy baby, so I am still feeling very lucky!

He'll be 5 months next Saturday, and I am starting to feel like "wow, where'd the time go" whereas until about 3 months I was like .... is time crawling?

The image above was taken RIGHT after Elliot rolled from his back to his tummy for the 1st time! It was VERY exciting. Mom and I were with him, but we both missed the action ... Oh well, we'll try to capture the 2nd time on video for posterity.

Elliot will be attending his 1st concert this Friday. We're going to see John Prine ... for those of you who have no idea who that is and are wondering about a baby going to a concert ... he's a cross between a country and folk singer, so the music isn't going to be too harsh, but still, to be safe, we've purchased sound blocking ear muffs for him ... oh he looks so cute in them! I'll post concert pics this weekend.

A LOT of firsts this month ... Elliot also had his first baby cereal this month ... at about 4.5 months of age. He really seems to enjoy it. He opens wide and gets most of it down his throat the first try. Oh ... I think he's crying for some food now, I'd best go feed my boy!

More to come this weekend!

Saturday, February 28, 2009

Growing Like a Weed

I apologize for the extreme delay in updating. I did manage to get some photos (80+) loaded last weekend ... but adding text was too much for me!

Elliot is EXCELLENT. He's "growing like a weed" and learning new things every day ... sometimes every minute it seems!

He's started on his path to rolling over. He's got the roll to the side down pat and he's even rolled from his tummy to his back! He's also quite eager to always be sitting up ... he's actually sitting in my lap as I type this!

This past month we've gotten him 2 new big plastic-crap toys (didn't want a house full of plastic-crap ... oh, well, live, learn then get Luvs, right?) that he loves spending about 10 minutes each in ... the excer-saucer and a better version of a Bumbo chair. The excer-saucer is today's version of a Johny-Jump-Up and the chair allows Elliot to sit with back support. Both items have a 360 degree tray that has toys affixed to it. I suppose this is helping to develop his reach and grab reflexes ... which he is doing a lot of ... especially with mama and grandma's hair and daddy's beard!

Grandma, as most of you know, is staying home with Elliot. I think the 2 of them are enjoying their days together. She has been wonderful about bringing Elliot over for afternoon feedings most every day and I usually go home for lunch so Elliot is only averaging 1 bottle a day. Some days I think we're silly for caring about this so much, but they're only this little for so long and only once ... so I will breastfeed and co-sleep as long as it's enjoyable for both of us (within reason, of course!).

Elli-bug turns 4 months this coming Wednesday! How exciting! All the huge landmark months and skills that are coming ahead seem so much more within reach now than they did at 1 month of age ... which, of course, they are ... but you know what I mean. I think before 3 months you really are wishing them to grow faster and then when you get to 4 months you realize it's speeding and you kinda want it to slow down a little.

Yesterday Elliot took his pacifier out of his mouth ... dropped it ... picked it back up ... and then put it BACK in his MOUTH! I think it's his new favorite game. He amazes me everyday!

Here are the things Elliot does that melt my heart this month:

He has started to wrap his arms around my neck when I hold him and at least once now he's actually squeezed while doing so ... I know he doesn't know what a hug is yet, but it's pretty cool to even feel like you're getting a hug from your baby! One day this week when I was getting into the backseat to get him out for an afternoon feeding he reached out his hand to me and every day when I come home from work I catch his eye and smile at him real big and say "Hey Baby!" and he just grins back at me ... so happy to see me.

Making the transition to working-mom has been .... well, ... work. I am SOOO blessed to have my mom at home with Elliot, but still you wish you could be with your child all the time. You worry about the stress from working affecting home, and you worry about being great on both fronts because you really can't afford to be anything less with either!

Last weekend we had a in-house photo shoot. I think Elliot enjoyed it ... he and the camera seem to have a love affair going on! I hope you enjoy the results.

So between my two jobs I haven't much time to write out updates ... but I will try to at least get you updated once a month!

Thursday, January 15, 2009

There's new pictures and even VIDEO for you all to enjoy now! :)

Elliot is doing GREAT! He's HUGE! He's in the 97th percentile for height and weight ... and my back feels every percent of that! He's 16lbs 2.5oz and 25.5" tall.

He has started to push his feet against my hands in order to crawl during tummy time. You can just feel how much this kid wants to move. He also loves sitting up. We bought him one of those infant chairs (like a bumbo, but not one of those) so that he can sit up. The chairs are designed to start with 3 and 4 month olds ... but when your baby is so big and wears 6 month clothing ... you kinda think he can do the "big kid" stuff ... SOOO ... even though he's got great head control and really strong neck muscles I don't let him sit in the chair for too long.

He's also got some top front teeth that are working on growing ... I think we'll see them by the end of 4 months if not sooner! He's discovered his hands and LOVES trying to suck on them. It's already quite obvious that he's going to be a righty ... but I was saying that when he was in the womb.

Elliot is working on extending out his day feedings from every 2 hours to somewhere between 2.5 to 3.5 hours ... makes things a little unpredictable when you're out and about, but it's also kinda nice! He's definitely got longer awake and sleep cycles now. It's really interesting all the little changes that babies go through in such a short amount of time. We've been co-sleeping from the beginning, and I can tell you that really helps a mama get her sleep ... especially a breastfeeding one! Elliot used to be on a bedtime schedule of between 12 - 2, but we have been successful with moving that window to 10 - 12! Usually we'll go to sleep at 11. He used to have to be rocked to sleep BEFORE we went into the bedroom for the night, but, happily, now I can go lay down with him while he's still awake and he'll eventually fall asleep without any fussing. Have I mentioned how lucky I am??

I swear Elliot actually said a word the other day ... I don't know what it was, but it was about four "coos" strung together. It was pretty wild because it came out like he was really talking to me ... usually the coos are monosyllabic. He's quite vocal with his coos and man does he love to smile and laugh! You'll see some of that on the videos.

I'm enjoying motherhood more and more the further away we get from my medical issues! No surprise there, huh? ;) I am completely healed up at this point, and SOOO happy for it. I go back to work this Friday 1/16, but I am ready for it. Especially since it's a 3-day weekend! Haha! I even took off the following Friday so that I have a 3-day week following my 1st day back ... and then another 3-day weekend. I figure, if you can ease into it, why not?

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Maternity leave ...

I now know why most women get at least 6 weeks off for maternity leave ... it took me 6 weeks and 1 day to start feeling like I knew what I was doing! Wink

So, in light of that, I feel that EVERY woman should get at least 12 weeks off so that she can spend the first 6 figuring it out and then the last 6 enjoying it! Luckily I have 4 weeks and some change left. I go back to work on 1/16/09.

Hope you enjoy the newest pictures! Elliot enjoyed meeting Santa Claus ... well, he at least didn't mind meeting Santa. Tongue out